Give me a 👍 if you are ready to:

  • Position yourself as a magnetic, valued, and sought after friend, partner, and co-worker.
  • Feel vigor and enjoyment of life and relationships.
  • Have spark and joy in connection.
  • Live free of resentment and burnout while being a big contribution to everyone who matters to you.
  • Be at home and at ease in your own skin, trusting yourself and being trustworthy to others.
  • Take off the masks and let us know you (because you know yourself and like who you are).
  • Stop trying to fit in or hustle.
  • Enjoy your life and relationships.

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Jerk-Proof Your Relationships is for people who:

  • Want proven tools to create resilient, respectful relationships.
  • Are analytical and goal oriented.
  • Want to feel loved, accepted, and safe being themselves.
  • Are sacrificing relationships to succeed at work.
  • Have thought about relationships, tried everything they can think of, and still aren’t getting (or Giving!) the love they want.
  • Are willing to work on themselves, to be curious and vulnerable with themselves.
  • Want real results.

After 10 years of coaching and 20+ years of working with people and listening to what they really want, these are things I’ve found to be universally true for all of us no matter our skin color, gender, sexual orientation, age, or abilities.

  • We want to be real and authentic with each other.
  • We want to feel safe being close to other humans.
  • We want to feel safe in our own skins.
  • We want to give the huge love that is within us.
  • We want to give without feeling stupid, used, abused, or taken advantage of.
  • We want to be like a tree – deep roots, solid, reliable, and resilient in the face of whatever life, relationships, and pandemics throw at us.
  • We want people we can rely on to be there for us no matter what.
  • We want people with whom we can take off our masks and still be loved.


We want connection. We don’t want to be lonely, yet most of us have been burned in the past. We’ve been hurt by someone else and we’ve hurt other people. Both suck. We don’t want to do that again.


No one wants to work with or live with a jerk, an abuser, or a manipulator. No one wants to be a jerk. an abuser, or a manipulator either. No one wants to get triggered by their past such that they feel out of control with their reactions. Everyone has had some experience with a jerk that has left them scarred and scared. No one would choose that if there were another option. Jerk-Proof Your Relationships gives you other options. You will learn the skills to neither be a jerk nor get trapped in a relationship with a jerk – ever again.


You want someone safe to rely on, feel solid with, and count on. That is what I am for my private clients. Now it’s time to teach you all what I know. For years I have practiced being stable, grounding, loving, and accepting with my clients. I get to be the parent or friend everyone wants to have. The one who listens with unconditional positive regard and trusts you to make your own decisions, your own choices, and your own mistakes. You get to mess up and still be loved. You get to rest and you get to keep working with a solid coach in your corner who cheers you on and cries with you. Then we look together to see what’s next. What do you want? And we create it.


Jerk-Proof Your Relationships gives you the skills to be all that. You will have the skills and the choice to not be a jerk, to be solid and reliable for yourself and others. You’ll also have the skills to not fall in love with a jerk, to not get betrayed by a jerk, and to not raise jerks. You will be able to be solid and trustworthy for yourself and for other people.

What you get:

Level 1 JPYR Full Course Access


  • 6 Milestones and Promises
  • Videos and supporting material to learn all the skills you need to fulfill on the Promises
  • Lifetime access to this course and bonus material
  • Lifetime access to regularly scheduled group coaching calls
  • Access to our private Facebook Group
  • Assignments between classes to hone your skills
  • A safe place to be yourself and meet other people
  • The skills to have fulfilling, resilient relationships at work, at home, and in bed
Level 2  Everything in Level 1 Plus Private Coaching and a “Done For You” Roadmap to Transformation
5 Private Coaching Sessions with Kassandra. We will work one on one with each other to keep you accountable, supported, and making progress towards your goals. We will pick an appropriate venue (in-person, phone, or video) depending on your preferences and location. As one private client said recently, “If I had just thought about these (hard relationship) things on my own, I’d be wound up and anxious now. But after talking to you about them, I was relaxed and saw new ways to be productive where before I’d been stuck.”


I’ll also create a Roadmap for Transformation personalized for you to use, custom made exactly for the relationship you most want to change. This Roadmap will be helpful immediately but also months and years after you complete the course. Have you ever done therapy and as soon as you stop things to back to the bad-old days? This is the antidote to falling into old habits.

Group Group Cohorts
A fabulous and cost effective way to do JPYR is to gather a group of friends and do it together.

Are you ready to sign up? Give us a call! We’ll talk about the relationship goals you have and make sure you sign up for exactly what you need – no more, no less.  We’ll also make sure you get any discounts or scholarships you are eligible for. Call or text 720-340-2246. If you would prefer to purchase without a phone call, you can purchase Level 2 via this link. 

Money Back Guarantee

No one wants to get taken advantage of. No one wants to buy something that doesn’t work. I understand that. I want you to get real results and I completely stand behind Jerk-Proof Your Relationships to deliver on everything I promise. If you don’t agree with me you can have your money back. Read the full terms here.

When, Where, and other Essentials

  • You’ll get a link to access the course after you register. You can join from your laptop or mobile device including PC, Mac, Android, or iPhone
  • Live Coaching calls are on Zoom.
  • Complete details for the Zoom room, how to schedule your personal coaching calls, how to access our FB group, and more will be sent after you register. Questions? Email me or schedule a time to talk.